I write a newsletter about inclusive and accessible communication.
Past editions of the newsletter
The ultimate guide to ADHD-friendly communication
In this hugely detailed resource, I explain:
• what ADHD really is
• why ADHD-friendly communication matters
• dozens of practical tips to make meetings, emails, conversations (and more) more ADHD friendly.
We've got:
• me over-sharing stories about the inner workings of my brain,
• wisdom from brilliant folks including Leanne Maskell and Ellie Middleton,
• heaps of practical tips and tools you can use right away.
Read: the ultimate guide to ADHD-friendly communication.
The ultimate guide to inclusive and accessible recruitment
In this mega guide, I help you to make your recruitment process more inclusive and accessible by changing:
• the language you use
• the requirements you ask for
• how you format your advert
• where you list your advert
• (how you talk about) your workplace culture
• the application process
• the way you interview people
It's packed full of examples, tips and tools, from brilliant folks at places like Friday the Young Feminist Fund, Chayn, Sonder & Tell, Monzo, Scope, Collaborative Future, Buffer and more. By the end, you’ll be equipped to improve your hiring process for everyone.
And I close each section with a checklist. You can download them all for free.
Read: The ultimate guide to inclusive and accessible recruitment.
The problem with empathy
Empathy gets talked about a lot in the social justice world, and it’s sometimes presented as the solution to all of our problems. While empathy matters deeply, I think we sometimes misunderstand its value. Or perhaps, we say that we have empathy and we really have sympathy or pity. Empathising with other people’s struggles is important. But I don’t think it can get us where we need to go. I’m grateful to Leila Billing who introduced me to the work of decolonial Latin American feminists, and the concept of “aceurpar.” It’s a kind of embodied solidarity, something more than empathy: it moves us to real action.
Read: The problem with empathy
This is racist anti-Muslim violence
After an explosion in racist, anti-Muslim violence in the UK, many of us also saw an outburst of complacency. I heard people say things like “well, that’s all over now” or “just goes to show, the UK isn’t as racist as all that.” Sadly, it’s not that simple. We need to name this violence for what it is, be clear on the real problems, recognise that racism and anti-Muslim hate run deeper and are far more prevalent than some white people and non-Muslims are willing to admit. In this article, I include practical action steps you can take now to speak accurately about the problem, and how we can dismantle racism together.
Read: This is racist anti-Muslim violence
A manifesto for joy
To me, joy means whimsy, silliness, and soul-restoring rest. It isn’t about hiding from the pain of the world. It isn’t about “protecting your peace”. It’s about knowing the darkness and choosing joy despite it.
Read: A manifesto for joy.
Should I say girl or woman?
Anyone else find yourself calling adult women girls? I used to do this all the time. (And I’m a woman in my 30s, pretty much double the age at which a girl is considered a woman). I came across Chelsae Huot’s fascinating study into the impact of calling women girls, and dug into why it matters. Linguistics girlies, you’re going to love this one.
Read: Should I say girl or woman?
What cis and trans actually mean
Since Elon Musk changed things over at X (formerly Twitter), there’s been a surge in hate speech towards queer, trans and gender-nonconforming people. This should terrify all of us. Musk says a lot of misguided things, and one in particular caught my eye. He said that “cis is a slur term.” Oh Elon, you don’t know what the word means. So in this article I break down the meaning of cisgender and transgender, where they come from, and why it matters.
Read: What cis and trans actually mean.
Should I be nicer?
I hate upsetting people. I do everything I can to avoid it. But sometimes ‘being nice’ is actually just a ‘nicer’ way to do nothing. Or a way to tone police people who are trying to push for change. You shouldn't have to dull down you activism for the sake of keeping people - the least affected people - happy. Should we be kind? Absolutely. But being kind is not the same as being nice. In today’s article I explain this in more detail and show you why you shouldn’t have to ask nicely when you stand for justice.
Read: Should I be nicer?
Martha Awojobi wants you to live laugh love
A lot of organisations talk about their “passionate commitment to anti-racism.” When you dig a little further, it’s all talk. I spoke to Martha Awojobi, curator of Uncharitable (formerly BAME Online), and the founder, director and fearless leader of JMB Consulting, about what meaningful anti-racism actually looks like.
Read: Martha Awojobi wants you to live laugh love.
This Barbie is a feminist
The Barbie movie took the world by storm. And while I don’t think it was a feminist triumph (more like a celebration of white feminism) it’s got some brilliant lessons on gender equity. The role reversal in the Barbie universe makes it plainly obvious just how unjust most societies are for women. What I loved about this movie was the joyful, playful showcase of what the world might look like if we rejected the ‘male default’. In this newsletter we get stuck into the details of what the ‘male default’ is and how it’s addressed in the Barbie movie. We will also discuss how this concept is the foundation of a lot of sexist language and how we can push back against this.
Read: This Barbie is a feminist.
Whose side are you on? The language of Palestine and Israel
Binary language is rarely helpful. In the aftermath of October 7, I reflected on how binary language is often used to reduce the complexities of the ongoing occupation of Palestine.
Read: Whose side are you on?
Thanksgiving or thangstaken?
Everybody loves thanksgiving, right? Well you might love the traditions associated with the holiday but if you knew the history behind it you might have second thoughts. You see, the thanksgiving story is a myth. A myth that tries to sugar coat colonisation. And cover up the harm done to Indigenous peoples and paint the colonisers as courageous pilgrims. In this newsletter I discuss some of the stories from Matika Wilbur (Swinomish and Tulalip) and Adrienne Keene’s (Cherokee Nation) wonderful podcast about the true history of thanksgiving, the people who suffered - and continue to suffer - because of it and how you can support Indigenous people.
Read Thanksgiving or Thangstaken?
Trauma, taboo and Fathers’ Day emails
How do you write for people who are grieving? How do you write about difficult topics without traumatising your reader? My Dad died just a few days before Father’s Day in the UK, so I think about this every day. I wrote about newsletter about trauma, bereavement and how we can use our words to make life easier for people who are grieving, anxious or stressed.
Read Trauma, Taboo and Father’s Day Emails.
Say no to rainbow washing
What exactly is rainbow-washing? Does it matter if brands act like LGBTQIA+ champions, when their actions behind the scenes don’t add up? I break down how some brands miss the mark with their Pride campaigns, and explore examples of brands who are getting it right, like Ben & Jerry’s.
Read Say no to rainbow washing.
How to talk about looted jewels
To celebrate the coronation of King Charles III. Ahem, because I’m hearing a lot about the crown jewels at the moment. A look at how we invisibilise the violence of empire, by distracting and minimising.
Read How to talk about looted jewels.
Neurodivergent-friendly instructions
Neurodivergence is an umbrella term, covering identities and conditions such as autism, dyslexia, ADHD, and more. We also cover the "What By When" framework, and why clarity and specifity matter so much when we’re communicating about and for neurodivergence.
Read neurodivergent-friendly instructions.
The best accessibility trick you already know
Making your writing more accessible can be quick, easy and free. Here’s my newsletter in praise of, and written almost entirely in, bullet points. Bullet points are reader-friendly and writer-friendly qualities, making information easy to scan, navigate, and absorb. They boost clarity, accessibility, and engagement without the need for extensive training or extra costs.
Read the best accessibility trick you already know.
What’s wrong with the French?
A tweet from the AP Stylebook went viral. The tweet suggested avoiding generalising labels like "the French" and "the college-educated" and instead using person-first language. I love a bit of inclusive langauge guidance from a style guide, but I have to question the usefulness of this advice. Not all labels are harmful. Some specific labels accurately describe groups. I support naming structural causes rather than blaming individuals and asking people about their preferred language whenever we can. The core issue lies in the stories we tell and the narratives we perpetuate. True inclusivity comes from telling accurate, nuanced, and respectful stories that challenge stereotypes and promote change.
Read What’s wrong with the French?
Say my name, say my name
Names are so much more than just a collection of letters. They are part of our sense of self, community and identity. Saying and spelling people's names right really matters. But it’s not always easy, for example, we may be dyslexic or find it hard to remember spellings. This post provides practical tips for learning, spelling and correctly pronouncing names.
Read Say My Name, Say My Name.
Disability is not a dirty word
I look at the language around disability, challenging euphemisms like "special needs” and introducing readers to the social model of disability, which highlights the impact of social structures and design choices. I also cover tips to make content more accessible, including using person-first or identity-first language, providing alt text for images, and using dyslexia-friendly fonts.
Read Disability Is Not a Dirty Word.
How to be LGBTQIA+ inclusive
Practical tips on how to use LGBTQIA+ inclusive language, including: not assuming gender or sexual orientation, whether we should say homophobia and transphobia or cissexism and heterosexism,
Read How to Be LGBTQIA+ Inclusive.
Simple writing is better writing
Making your writing more accessible really doesn’t have to be tricky. It comes down to being clear, logical and easy to understand. I break down concepts like cognitive load, and give you practical tips and tools to help you create simpler content which is easier to read, remember and understand.